Carlos Maldonado

Adoption! he word itself can be intimidating and, when you think about it, is a monumental journey to take on.

Well, my wife, Carmelle, and I, after several failed attempts at becoming pregnant, decided to embark on a life-long journey to China and backelieve me when I say, it a life-long journey.

The adoption process itself was not very difficult; many countries were offering adoption opportunities. he mystery of adopting from another country and not knowing the health or state of mind of the child left me wondering if we made the right decision. fter praying about it for some time, Carmelle and I decided to proceed with the adoption. We also wanted to adopt an older child instead of an infant because older children tend to be left behind. ll in all, it took about a year to complete the documents, interviews and governmental approvalsnd off to China we went.

It been 19 years since we made the long trip to China to adopt our daughter, Ivy Zhuhua. s I look back, I would never have imagined how difficult the journey would be becoming parents of an adopted child. t wasn long after we adopted Ivy that we began to see unusual behavior and poor coping skills. After countless trips to doctors and specialists, Ivy was diagnosed with Asperger syndrome. hen I was made aware of her diagnoses I was questioning whether I could be a good father. I made a commitment to God that I would trust in Him to help me do whatever it takes to help Ivy have a normal life. oday, Ivy is a vibrant, young women full of life. She is learning to cope with her disability and is maturing every day.

Many people who know what Carmelle and I have been through have asked me if I would go through the adoption process again. believe as God people we have a responsibility to care for orphans no matter the difficulty one must endure. Every person deserves to be loved, and I would not hesitate to do it all over again.Some reading this might have second thoughts about adopting. would say to you: What price can you place on a human life?

Ie always wondered what would have happened to Ivy if we did not adopt her. thought of the worst things, but I do know for us adopting Ivy, God has given her a second chance and an opportunity to live life to the fullest. t has been such a joy being Ivy Dad and would encourage anyone contemplating adoption to not let the unknown stop you from fulfilling your dream. Trust me, the journey has been well worth it.